im probably a cis male with a freak kink but fuck it imma be a woman
i get jealous of trans women and wish i could be a real woman like them but im not but i wish i could be so fuck it imma transition as a cis male. i think i might be transexual and cisgender is that even fucking possible? you know what fuck it who cares.
I get it means he doesn't experience disphoria or identify as a woman, he just wants too look as one. His drive to transition is different.
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I hate that the world decided gender dysphoria wasn't needed to transition.
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Are we gatekeeping being trans now? Some people simply don't experience dysphoria, and yet they know they'd be happier as the opposite gender.
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this is some tsf logic right here
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No, you're not going to be a woman. You may look like one (not likely). But you won't BE a women, EVER. It's just not possible.
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Question, let's say OP answers "Sure, I'll never BE a woman. I'll get surgery anyways because I want to."
Would you disapprove his decision regardless of the term used? Or is your focus more on "using the right words"?
Because I get from the post that he doesn't identify as a woman and says he doesn't care about being one or not
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> Would you disapprove his decision regardless of the term used?
Yes I would. You're mutilating your healthy body for a kink. I'd say go to a shrink, work out, make new friends, be healthy and don't do that. The potential for regret is big and there's no turning back from this. Read a few stories of people who have "transitioned" and regretted it. It's just not worth it.
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Thumbs up for the warning, the issue is real. There are people out there that really fucked it up. Could be undetect d mental health issues or just because dysfunctional sex life, as is a risk to take. But I miss your acknowledgement to the majority of trans, who just found the way to have a happy life like I would also wish you to have. Would not argue if you disagree here, as those people don't care if you or me agree and indeed, didn't even have to ask us for approval. Seems we live in a not so bad world, after all. Just a small chance they could be affected by constantly being faced all over the place with how other people without divergent sexual identity think they would act. Just be normal, isn't too hard...
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I see. In some ways I get it
Like I think if someone told me they want to chop off all their limbs because that makes them happy, I'd try to convince them not to. That's one end of the spectrum.
On the other hand, however, if someone wants to get tattoos, piercings or smoke regularly. While I dislike all of those one could argue it's "harming their bodies", I think that's their decision.
I'm curious where you'd trace the line for personal freedom vs you are hurting yourself and why.
Also, I agree there's some potential for regret and I think it's good to talk about that. But my guess is we have different opinions on how commonly this happens.
Would it changed your mind if only a small minority of trans people regreted it? (Don't have it, haven't looked it up. Just curious if it would) I think data showing it's a majority that regret it would definitely sway me closer to your position on that
So anything you do that could be harmful to your body, is something you should actively avoid?
I'd love to hear if you ever drank alcohol, or how your life been so far without absolutely any damages to your body
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Perfectly fine! Just do it (with a small catch later on to explain)!.
We all tend to categorize in that personal area more than it needs for any argument - despite it is not even affecting most. It really comes down to the number of categories someone can tell apart that makes it possible to be "tolerant" or not. So what? Could be just somebody else's problem to test that. but not yours right? Still need words to describe? Call it lesbian trans-man or even put semi-bi in between. The inverse of gayfag, also..
But I personally think it seems we need to have a "standard" to align ourself, because sexuallity and persona is fragile. Really.
So that's the catch: I would not transition in your case just because of it. It is new, fun and a lot of reasons only you can tell. Play around, fuck around and what not but just take your time and test it through before doing permanent changes to your body.. Sometimes it is the fantasy more than anything else and you just don't know. It's very ok to just find out..
Btw, I would not label myself anyrhing but had a dick in my ass once or twice and fucking enjoyed it for what it is. Not question myself for being horny and adventurous.
Wish you the best.
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I'm pro free speech but can we keep tranny shit off the front page? It's everywhere on 4chan and reddit and twitter and facebook and the media and everywhere else. Is there a way for users to block faggot content or nah? I'm not against fags but fucking christ mang can we have ONE space without this shit?
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Given distribution in society, these topics seem to be troll content initially for the most part. I would argue that never found a more effective way to really piss off the people. Let me be bold here: it was Disney woke shit that made people gay as well as hate the woke gay shit at the same time. Ok, I do not know what to conclude now but somebody should do something.
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The thing is the front page is for everything, that was kind of the reason it was added around a week ago, people didn't want to check each board 1 by 1.
It's okay if you don't want to see specific content. I recommend you make a request in the suggestions section for a way to block stuff you dont want to see.
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> I'm not against fags but fucking christ mang can we have ONE space without this shit?
Any space where users can be anonymous, will be filled with people who aren't able to be "themselves" out in public society, no way around it.
Reason you see so many racists/sexists pieces of shit online, is because it is the only outlet they have without consequences. If they tried that in real-life, they'd be shunned real fast.
Same goes for LGBT stuff, the reason it spreads like wildfire on anonymous forums is because it's their only outlet. If they were more accepted in the wide society, they wouldn't have to congregate on forums like this.
So fight for their rights in your country, and they'll eventually disappear from anonymous message boards.
Idk maybe read up a little bit on it. What you’re describing is similar to my experience, where I just really wanted to have a set of tits, to the point that I asked a psychiatrist when risperidone would give me boobs. I still thought that was a completely normal masculine desire to have. Tbh though I felt dysphoric more when I decided I wanted to transition than beforehand, because then I was laser focused on all my features that are more masculine. But no one can decide you’re transgender on your behalf. Only you can decide, and whatever you identify as is 100% okay, even if the whole world is on fire. https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en
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go for it op, grow those tatas
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it's your body, and your identity, so the number one arbiter of what you can be is all up to you. don't ever let anyone else tell you how you want to live your own life <3 that is true freedom ₍ᐢx⩊•ᐢ₎